Whenever I bring together a new bargaining team, I start by sharing a few anecdotes from previous bargaining experiences, including those I’ve borrowed from others over the years. These have shaped my top five ‘bargaining isms’:
- The most prepared wins – while ideally, no party should walk away from the table feeling like they lost, I can guarantee the group that has done their homework in advance will prevail. The best argument to support or refute a proposal is evidence. This may come in the form of market data, internal bargaining patterns, related sector settlements, employment legislation, and even knowledge of your own current practices.
- Know your mandate and stay within it – understand exactly how much you have available to spend on the total agreement and how to cost it. Build a costing model and price everything in the other party’s proposal. Even items like shift premiums, uniforms, or vacation enhancements, which may be presented as non-monetary, have a cost. You can only spend a dollar once, so letting the other party know the cost of their proposals and how much you can invest in the agreement reveals priorities quickly.
- The right to be smarter five minutes later – this approach ensures both teams know it is a safe space to share ideas and Everyone understands that no one will be held to their word if they later want to retract a suggestion. This promotes creative, interest-based solutions.
- Always work from your own proposal – this is the most important lesson I have learned. If you consistently incorporate what interests you from the other parties’ proposals and work it into your own, you will avoid the risk of inadvertently dropping proposals or adopting language you have not fully considered.
- Only show emotion if you plan to do so – there may be times when it is necessary to take on a firm tone to make a point but that should never be an emotional response provoked by the other party. Use a caucus to cool down, but do not allow yourself (or members of your team) to show unplanned anger or “When they go low, we go high” (Michelle Obama, Democratic National Convention, 2016).
Reflecting on these ‘isms’, it’s clear that each bargaining experience, whether my own or borrowed, carries invaluable insights that can shape an approach to negotiations. Whether it’s the importance of preparation, being knowledgeable, the necessity of adaptability or building safe spaces, these ‘isms’ highlight the diverse strategies that can lead to successful outcomes. Remember, every negotiation is an opportunity to learn, grow and refine your skills. By building on these shared experiences and learnings, we can navigate the complexities of bargaining with confidence and integrity.
About the Author

Allison Arnold is a seasoned labour relations specialist with over 30 years of Human Resources experience within the broader public sector, with a particular focus on higher education. As Chief Negotiator, Allison has successfully led multiple negotiations with unions spanning from OSSTF, OPSEU, CUPE, PSAC, UFCW, IATSE, and WLUFA. Certified in Conflict Management and Mediation from Conrad Grebel University College, Allison demonstrates exceptional leadership in grievance and arbitration hearings, providing strategic guidance during periods of labour dispute. An alumnus of Queen’s Masters of Industrial Relations and the Queen’s University IRC, Allison employs a strategic and interest-based approach to collective bargaining. Throughout her career Allison has held several key positions, including AVP Human Resources and Director of Faculty and Staff Relations at Wilfrid Laurier University. She is passionate about mentoring the next generation of labour relations and conflict resolution professionals.







